If you’re looking for a girlfriend, look for an honest girl. In this case, you’ll need to consider the self assessment part, since just as you care about your partner’s looks, she does too.
You’ll be in a country where you can be with much younger girls — girls who, at that age, wouldn’t even look at you in your home country. Girls much more beautiful than the most attractive woman you’ve ever been with back home. But still, your looks and age matter. So, if you’re in your thirties and in decent shape, you can probably be with almost any girl. But if you’re over 50 and not in great shape, accept that you’ll have some limitations. If you arrive thinking that being a foreigner means you can get any girl, you’ll be the perfect victim for a gold digger. And it’s not just your looks — your attitude matters too. Be a gentleman, care about her, make her laugh, take her to places she enjoys (and don’t confuse expensive with better). Maybe taking her to a karaoke bar will make her happier than dining at the city’s most expensive restaurant.
An honest girl is one who’s looking for a real relationship — especially those seeking a foreign partner. I’ll go into more detail about their reasons in each country’s section, but know this: if she’s honest, it’s not about money. There are social factors that make women in some countries prefer foreign partners — for example, in places where it’s common for men to hit women, cheat on them constantly, not work, or never take them out to have fun. As I said, it’s not about money — but that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t prefer someone who can offer stability. Of course, that’s something that works in your favor. After all, if you had to choose, under equal conditions, between two women — one rich who could give you a quality life and one poor with whom you’d live miserably — which one would you choose?
But if you’re looking for an honest girl, read the gold digger section, because there are women who pretend to be genuine, making you believe they like you, but their only goal is to get material benefits — and there are plenty of them in the countries I’ll be discussing. It’s important to learn how to identify gold digger, because they’ve ruined the lives of many men — both emotionally and financially. Their victims are foreigners looking for love, unaware they’re being deceived.
At the same time, if a girl is genuinely looking for a boyfriend, don’t lie to her by pretending you’ll be her partner and then forget about her after your vacation. Some women live very hard lives, and their only dream is to find love — don’t play with their feelings. If what you want is a girlfriend experience during your vacation, go for a freelancer: you’ll have the girlfriend experience with a beautiful, fun girl, and no one will get hurt.
If you’re looking for a real partner, dating apps work best. Meeting girls in person is easier in nightlife venues, but the percentage of honest women there is quite low. Honest girls usually have jobs, but they don’t earn much money, so they rarely do things beyond their budget. Going out at night, even if they enjoy it, is usually something they do only occasionally.
If you find one you like, they usually don’t mind maintaining a long-distance relationship and seeing you only a couple of times a year during your vacations. Over time, if things go well, you can consider marriage and living together.