These girls are somewhere in between a woman who genuinely wants to be with you and one who is in it for the money. I recommend them if you’re on vacation and looking for fun—but not cold, emotionless sex.
Although this concept isn’t strictly defined and there are prostitutes who call themselves freelancers, I’ll use this term to define a different kind of girl, and in this blog, that’s what I’ll be referring to when I talk about freelancers.
This concept is widely used in the Philippines, but this type of girl exists across other continents as well.
A freelancer would be somewhere between an honest girl who goes out at night to have fun with her friends and a girl who goes out to earn money in exchange for sex (what we would normally call a prostitute).
If you’re on vacation and you want something like a girlfriend experience—someone beautiful, friendly, and fun—with whom you don’t just have sex but also go out to dinner or spend the day at the beach, this is your kind of girl.
It’s not the cold sex you have with a prostitute—pay for a quick one and goodbye—but rather involves the fun and company of a normal girl: having some drinks with her, dancing, talking… but with an ease for sex and usually being more attractive than what you could get without the financial factor.
You can’t ask a freelancer “How much?”, get a rate, and leave with her—especially not early in the night.
A freelancer goes out with her friends to have fun, but finding a foreigner who pays for her drinks and gives her some money later for sex is also part of her plan.
You’ll have to seduce a freelancer. Then you might wonder—what are the advantages compared to a normal girl?
First, they’re much more approachable than regular girls, often open to giving a guy a chance or even being the ones who approach you.
You’ll be able to pick up a much more attractive girl than you could if she weren’t a freelancer—and here comes the part of self-assessment, because a good freelancer won’t go with a man unless she likes him at least a little.
They’re usually not wealthy but not in desperate need either. That’s why if they don’t like you at all, they won’t go with you. And if you try to end the night early by taking her away, she’ll probably refuse, since she’s out to have fun.
These are girls used to nightlife and parties, which makes them fun—you can have a great night of drinks and end up having sex without the complications of a normal girl who expects a relationship or might be harder to sleep with on the first night. And if you’re on vacation, you don’t have much time, so this option is highly recommended.
As I said, you get the best of both worlds—not just sex, but also companionship and the enjoyment of spending time with a very attractive girl.
And it’s also possible that you truly connect with them and they end up becoming your partner. I’ve dated several: some who liked me from the beginning but were easy to approach because they expected money, and others who initially asked for money but stopped doing so after a couple of dates.