The first and probably biggest mistake people make when trying to meet girls in other countries is thinking that being a foreigner makes you incredibly attractive.
It’s true that in the countries I’ll talk about, being foreign gives you a lot of points, but you also need to keep in mind objective facts such as your age, body type, and looks.
If you’re 60 years old, overweight, and bald, don’t fool yourself: it’s unlikely (though not impossible) that an incredibly beautiful 20-year-old girl will fall in love with you at first sight.
So if that 20-year-old girl tells you she loves you, there’s a 90% chance she’s lying to get something from you.
Remember that being in another country adds points.
If on a scale from 1 to 10 you’re a 6 in your country, in these places you’ll be a 9 — you’ve gone from “I’m okay” to outstanding.
But if you’re a 2 at home (a very low score), you might become a 5 or 6 abroad. That means you barely pass.
You can attract decent girls, but if a girl who could win a beauty pageant approaches you in a club, be suspicious of her intentions.
This increase in value depends on the country — in some, you’ll gain a few points, in others, many.
We’ll go into more detail about this in each country.
You must stay aware of reality regarding how you met the girl.
As I said, if you’re not physically attractive, don’t trust a stunning girl who claims to be in love with you right away.
There are other factors that affect how many points you gain, such as how many foreigners are around.
If there are many, it’ll be harder and you’ll lose points due to competition.
If you go to low-tourism areas where girls look for foreigners, you’ll gain points and find it easier to date more attractive girls.
You can read more about this in the post How to Flirt in the Destination Country.
Try to approach girls of different attractiveness levels to see who’s interested in you and establish your score in that place.
But until you’re sure of your level, don’t trust especially beautiful girls.
If a girl wants to be with you, don’t waste the opportunity, but during the first dates, be careful:
don’t give her money or buy expensive gifts.
Pay attention to signs like whether she kisses or hugs you first, or if she never does, if she listens when you talk or seems uninterested…
These kinds of girls should be avoided at all costs. You can learn more about them in the post Gold diggers.
In short, just like in your home country, you need to know the level of girl you can get.
Even though abroad your level will be notably higher, it still has limits.
If you think you have none, you’ll likely end up scammed or with a girl who isn’t good for you.