There’s nothing better than good planning to maximize your results.
If you’re traveling for vacation, your days are limited, so it’s best to have a clear plan to make the most of your time.
Even if you’re staying long-term, starting off strong will help you meet women right away.
Before the trip: start online
Begin two weeks before your trip using a dating app.
👉 Check out the post on how to flirt online for more details.
- Some people spend months talking to someone before visiting them, but I don't recommend it, as during that time they may meet another guy who is actually going to their country and give him priority.
- Ideally, start about two weeks before traveling.
- Use Tinder with the Passport mode, or a local dating app depending on the country.
- Two weeks is enough to find women you like and schedule dates for when you arrive.
Schedule multiple dates on different days.
If you like the first one, you can always cancel the others, but you may also want to try meeting someone else.
Once you arrive
Read the post Flirting in the Destination Country for more details.
First outings
I recommend your first night out be in a touristy area.
While not the best place for genuine connections, it helps you:
- Get acquainted with the local culture if you don't know it. It won't be authentic, but you'll get a first impression.
- Understand how women behave.
- Take advantage of the conveniences tourist spots offer foreigners.
Tourist nightlife areas often have several bars and clubs close together, making it easy to hop from one to another.
For the following days
Focus on non-touristy places.
If you can’t find any before arriving, use your time in tourist areas to ask locals about alternatives.
- Ask women from dating apps.
- Use Google Maps instead of TripAdvisor to find lesser-known nightlife spots.
- Make friends with a local guy: going out with him makes it easier to meet women, and they’ll feel more comfortable if someone from their country is in your group.
👉 If you’re traveling alone, this is even more important. A man by himself can look like a “hunter,” but in a group —especially with a local— you’ll inspire far more trust.