Why a Filipina Girl Might Like You
Many people mistakenly answer “money”, and this is one of the biggest misconceptions I’ve seen in blogs written by people who went there on vacation and came back with a false impression.
First, you need to understand why Filipina girls are attracted to foreigners beyond money.
How many Filipino men behave
Of course, this is not true for 100% of cases —I’ve met many Filipino guys who loved and cared for their girlfriends, and their girlfriends were loyal—, but the type of relationship I’m going to describe is sadly common.
In the Philippines, it’s quite usual for a man to beat his partner —and I’m not talking about a slap that leaves a bruise, but severe beatings.
I’ve met several young women in their early twenties missing teeth because of such beatings. One even went cross-eyed as a result.
- These men, besides beating their partners, often don’t work or help at home.
- The little money that comes in is often spent on alcohol or another woman.
So many women find themselves alone at night, taking care of their children, with no money for food, while the man comes home drunk and beats them.
They know this pattern well, and most have friends who’ve suffered the same.
What Filipina women look for
Filipinas know that Western men don’t tolerate domestic violence, that we usually go out with our girlfriends and that we work to provide.
That’s why many Filipinas prefer foreigners —they want a man who loves and cares for them, not a rich provider.
If a Filipina truly likes you, she’ll stay with you even if you lose everything.
Of course, there are gold digger only interested in money, read the post to avoid them.
I’ve dated many Filipinas who genuinely loved me and never had any financial interest.
In fact, some even hid their financial problems from me to avoid seeming like they were after my money.
If a Filipina asks for expensive gifts or wants to go to luxury places, you can be sure she’s not really into you —she’s with you for the money.
Filipinas are humble women and take care of your money. You’ll have to pay, yes, but if she likes you, she’ll do her best to make you spend as little as possible.