Dating a Filipina

Chica disfrutando de la noche en la ciudad

If I had to summarize this post in one word, it would be: karaoke.
Still, here are several more ideas to make your date memorable.

Daytime dates

Shopping malls
Filipinas love malls. You can walk around, grab a beer, have ice cream, watch a movie, or eat together.
A small gift is always appreciated—no need to spend much, since most are humble and value simple gestures.
⚠️ If she expects expensive gifts or fancy places, she’s likely a gold digger.

Private beaches
Many beaches in the Philippines charge entrance fees, making them special for a date.
They often provide tables and food services, so you can relax and enjoy together.

Nighttime dates

Karaoke
The number one choice. Filipinas love it, enjoy it, and usually sing very well.
Karaoke here means private rooms for you and your group, with food and drinks served. The privacy makes it ideal for a date.
You don’t need to sing—just watching her sing love songs for you can be enough.

Nightclubs
Filipinas are full of life and love to dance. Going to a club, even after karaoke, is a great option.
Many clubs offer tables if you buy a bottle. You don’t need to finish it—they’ll keep the rest for another night.
Usually, the local girl will suggest which club to go to.

Lunch or dinner dates

  • Ask what food she likes. The only certainties are: she’ll want rice with the meal and many love pineapple on pizza.
  • Some prefer Filipino food, others burgers or pizza, and many like trying something they don’t usually get. As I said, it's best to ask them what they feel like.
  • If she suggests an expensive restaurant, be cautious: genuine Filipinas are happy with simple places.
  • Often, they’ll suggest Jollibee, the local fast-food chain.
  • Outdoor restaurants with live music are also a great option.

Road Trip

Not recommended for a first date, since it can be too long if it doesn’t go well.
But if you already know her, it can be amazing.

  • The Philippines is full of stunning spots: waterfalls, beaches, rivers, jungles.
  • Rent a motorbike or car (check Facebook Marketplace for good deals) for a day trip.
  • For longer distances, stay overnight in a budget hotel and explore new areas together.

Look up local attractions online: zip lines, viewpoints, hiking routes, and more.