Imagine a woman appears in your city who wants to be with you and is a billionaire. She never lets you pay for anything, takes you to all the places you’ve ever wanted to visit, invites you to eat and drink whatever you like, gives you expensive gifts, and even offers you to move into her mansion with servants, driving luxury cars, and vacationing at five-star resorts. Sounds amazing, right? And if she’s also kind and attractive, what more could you ask for?
However, even with all that, if you don’t find her physically attractive, if she’s boring or unpleasant to be around, you would probably turn down those luxuries to be with a humble woman you truly like.
Now, bring this to a smaller economic scale: in this case, you are the “rich” one. You don’t have to offer grand luxuries, because we’re talking about women who may live in slums or in conditions considered extreme poverty in our countries. For an average woman in some countries, what you consider a “normal” life could be a dramatic improvement in her quality of life.
And remember, in our first example we talked about luxuries; in reality, for many of these women, the difference is being able to afford basic needs like food or medicine.
That’s why it’s not always fair to label them as gold diggers just because your middle-class income at home makes you appear wealthier and more attractive abroad. You would likely also show more interest in a woman who could improve your quality of life.
Still, if the woman is truly looking for love, money alone isn’t everything — it may earn you some extra points, but your physical attractiveness, personality, and the way you treat her will ultimately determine if she wants to be your partner.
If the only thing that matters to the girl is the money you bring to the relationship, regardless of your physical appearance and personality, then she is not looking for love. Money will earn you points, but it will not be decisive in a girl who is looking for love deciding to be with you.
This doesn't mean that you have to care. If you're not looking for a girl who loves you, but just want to be with an attractive girl, there are many who are only looking for financial gain. In the section on types of girls, you'll find different behaviors.
Always look for those that suit what you're looking for, and the relationship will be much easier for both parties.